Dating emotionally disturbed women
meaning that even when the trope's not enforced, the writers still obviously expect the audience to believe in it. There’s a fine balance between loving your man and smothering your man.Unfortunately, no matter how hard she tries, she can’t teach a gorilla how to put down the toilet seat, pay for dinner, and write her sweet notes of nothing.It’s too late, and eventually, the relationship fades. Above all else, I believe that the reason why we settle for someone suboptimal is because we believe we aren’t deserving of more. You don’t deserve to be mistreated or taken advantage of ever! Life isn’t worth living if there’s nobody special to share it with.In retrospect, every woman who has gone out with a deadbeat loser realizes the case. You deserve to have someone love you back as much as you love them. I’d rather be a median waged person with a loved one than be a lonely billionaire in the long run.It’s irrational to think that you will die alone given the population of the world today. If there are five “must haves” such as humor, compassion, motivation, spontaneous, cultured and he has three out of five, the temptation is to settle.Her “” moment comes at a time after she’s given everything to him.
There are countless posts online where women complain about their deadbeat boyfriends for never paying for anything, never buying them gifts, always playing video games all day long while still living at home in their parent’s basement, and never holding on to a job for more than a year to save their lives.
The pervasiveness of tropes like this can also affect the statistics, where people are ashamed to admit they have been abused by women, or the police refuse to file reports on what they consider unimportant, or in all too many cases, consider the wife's abuse of the husband "preemptive self-defense" and arrest .
In addition, most shelters ban men, and people trying to bring attention to male victims or start male shelters have been ignored, ridiculed, accused of diverting attention from women's issues, and even received death threats in some cases.
There are way too many people who hate their jobs and keep on doing them, just like there are way too many women who settle for men who treat them poorly.
What is it about non-ideal situations which makes us keep carrying on, doing nothing to change?